The River of Life

Read: Proverbs 3

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight.” Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV)

I have recently been planned a huge family reunion in June 2010 in honor of what have been my mother and dad’s 95th and 96th birthdays respectively. One of the activities we hope to participant in as a family is whitewater rafting. Thinking of the possibility, I drifted back in time.

I love to shoot rapids. I remember shooting rapids in a sixteen-foot aluminum canoe as a teenager. Of course, during that time, the rapids were probably category I or II in strength, but they seemed like Category IV from our perspective. As a teenager, it was a thrill, a heart-pumping, adrenaline-flowing moment as my brother and I came toward the first swell, water splashing in our faces, veering around one large boulder, and another. We paddled like crazy listening to each other above the “roar” of the Delaware River around Washington’s Crossing. At the end of each run, we took a deep breath and relaxed in the calm of a smooth flowing pool below, baling out the water we took on in the previous rapids. Oh what a wonderful remembrance! In fact, as I type this, my heart feels the exhilaration again.

As amateurs, we discovered some of the keys to the successful conquer of those rapids. They are not limited to directional control or float with or ahead of the current, but also, looking ahead and not to the side or behind. Furthermore, in the process, there was the reciprocal trust of my brother and me as we traveled along the river.

It is the same as life. The river of life is like shooting the rapids of a twisting, descending riverbed. The river of life has a guide who wants us to listen to his instructions and plan. The Guide, calls out to us over the roar of the rapids, the noise of the riffles, and the peacefulness of the calm pools, calling us to trust him with our whole heart. Thus, Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us to trust the Guide in our run in the river of life.


Prayer: O Lord Jesus, may we remember to trust you with our heart as we travel within the river of life with you as Guide. May we be an instrument of your guidance to others who travel along their rivers of life. Amen.

Renovation

Read: 2 Corinthians 5:16-18

“This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun!.” 2 Corinthians 3:17 (NLT)

There was scraping and hammering all through the house beginning at 6:30 a.m. each morning these past two weeks. Contractors replaced rotted soffits and fascia boards with new lifetime concrete board, and roofers replaced a leaking roof. The parsonage refurbishment of the roof is underway.

What is interesting about the projects is the contractors are not just making cosmetic replacement of surface items to make the house look first-class. Rather, the work teams have gone below the surface to the structure beneath. They replaced rotted and broken wood frame and support. The roofing contractors replaced all the original decking with energy saving heat barrier OSB board, and thirty-year shingles overlaying the structure.

This work reminds me that Christ is in the renovation business, also. Rather than just working on the cosmetic, outward appearance of our lives, Christ wants to work on the framework below. Through the work of the Holy Spirit, true renovation begins in our heart, mind, and soul. The Holy Spirit wants to go the root and foundation of our lives and renovate, or in Wesleyan terms, sanctify. Renovation (sanctification) of the framework produces transformation within and without. Renovation (sanctification) of our heart, mind, and soul produces the good fruit of the Spirit (see Galatians 5:22-23). Remember the Scripture above: “This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun!”

Just like in renovation of a home, the great thing about this renovation (sanctification) is we have free choice to accept the work or not. I hope and pray we accept the renovation (sanctification) of the Spirit in our lives, beyond the ascetics on the outside.

Prayer: O Lord Jesus, thank you for being in the renovation business. Give us courage to allow you to continue the renovation (sanctification) process in our lives from this day forward. Amen.

ReTHINK Church in grace and peace,

Jack

Our Elderly

Read: Colossians 3:12-17

“And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.” Colossians 3:17 (NRSV)

I know I repeated the scripture reading above from my last Jack’s Journal. The reading is apropos for what became intriguing for me in the past week. As I was in the office last week, Rev. Glyn Rives, our Pastor Emeritus, stopped to visit. He asked me, “Jack, did you see the article in the latest edition of the United Methodist Report on Aging Well?” I told him, “Not yet, but I would.”

As soon as I returned to my desk, I sat down and read the article written by Missy Buchanan. After reading the article, I remembered that about six months previous, I contacted Missy Buchanan to see if she would come to at FUMC Whitesboro and share some of her insights from her book, Living with Purpose in a Worn Out Body (Upper Room Books). I am pursuing this discussion opportunity again for I cannot remember whose turn it was to call one another.

In the mean time, aging well is forefront in my mind and the mind of many others. Missy is correct in that our attention to the elderly as a society and the church, especially, could always use some improvement. We do emphasize reaching out to young families and children, and our elderly are the first to endorse this knowing it will keep the church active and alive after they pass to eternity. While we wait for Missy Buchanan to come to FUMC Whitesboro, please read the article below taken from the UM Reporter by permission, through the lens of Colossians 3:17 above. Maybe, just maybe, God is calling you to be involved in the development of new ministries for our elderly…we are all going to be there sometime in the future…quicker than we think.

AGING WELL: Are we talking about aging? Missy Buchanan, May 21, 2009
Missy Buchanan
By Missy Buchanan Special Contributor

Recently I spent an afternoon cruising the blogosphere to see what Methodists are saying about the aging population.

First I typed in older adults. Not much there. I searched for elderly. Nothing except an occasional story that mentions an elderly person. I tried senior adults, aging, nursing home, assisted living, frail and homebound. I gave it one last shot with gray. Nothing to make me think that the aging population was on the radar of blogging Methodists.

Not long after, I heard from two conference chairpersons of Older Adult Councils in different parts of the country. Both mentioned how hard it was to get people to serve on the council. “It seems like no one is really interested,” said one.

I recalled a conversation I’d had with the minister of a small United Methodist church. He confessed: “I don’t really like visiting with older people because most of them just want to talk about superficial things.” Ouch.

That led me to explore some United Methodist-related seminaries to see how they are preparing students for ministry to and with older adults. Mostly I discovered reading lists about aging as part of a pastoral-care curriculum, but not much else.

All of that seems to beg the question: With an aging population and a church that is graying even faster, why aren’t senior adults a hot topic of discussion?

There’s a lot of important conversation about declining membership and the need to reach young adults and young families. I get it. Really, I do. Our denomination’s
future depends on it.

Still, I worry that church leaders are discussing older adults only in reference to dwindling church numbers. In fact, I’ve heard conversations that were like a finger pointed in the wrinkled faces of seniors, as if older adults should be blamed for growing old and dying. Now I am no theologian, but I’m pretty sure that’s not what Jesus had in mind.

Thankfully, the denomination recognized in 2000 the need for a Center in Aging and Older Adult Ministries. Executive director Dr. Rick Gentzler is working hard to support the needs of a graying society.

But how many local churches are using those resources and developing effective older-adult ministries?

Sometimes even figuring out how to talk about older-adult ministry is confusing. When you refer to older adults, who is it are you talking about? Active seniors? Frail elderly? The banner of older adults stretches across both—and every gray head in between. The first group is boarding the bus for Branson while the other is slowly shuffling behind walkers.

My 29-year-old daughter attended a funeral recently for her husband’s grandmother in another state. Knowing only a handful of people, she migrated to a group of elderly men and struck up a conversation. “They reminded me so much of
Grandaddy,” she said, speaking fondly of my father, with whom she’d had a special relationship.

That got me to thinking. Maybe that’s a way for ministers, laypersons and seminaries to think anew about older adults. As someone’s beloved parents or grandparents. As people with names, feelings and stories to be shared. As time-worn children of a loving God.

Perhaps then we will give them more than lip service or a gift basket. Perhaps then we will realize that ministry to older adults involves building and maintaining
relationships. And that takes time and effort.

May is Older American Month [we missed it at FUMC]. The United Methodist Church is encouraging congregations to honor senior members with an Older Adult Recognition Sunday. That’s a good start, but it’s not enough.

After the calendar turns to June, what then? Who will hold the hand of the lonely widow who has no family? Who will read faith stories to the one whose eyes have dimmed? Who will sit with the bedridden man and remind him that Jesus loves him? Who will do this for the least of these? I pray it is us.

Ms. Buchanan, a member of FUMC Rockwall, Texas, is the author of Living with
Purpose in a Worn Out Body (Upper Room Books).
Used with permission © 2009 UM Reporter

Prayer: O Lord Jesus, thank you for blessing our lives with our elderly. May we not forget them and thank them for their ministry in both past and present. Touch our hearts and remind us of our responsibility of ministry with our elderly. May your life shine through us and become a “touch from God” to our elderly. Amen.

ReTHINKing Church in grace and peace.

Say and do unto Christ

Read: Colossians 3:12-17
“And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.” Colossians 3:17 (NRSV)

I cannot believe that I turned 57 this week. Each year that clicks off in my life, I sit in awe of the time past and the Grace of God. Yesterday, as I sat in my devotional time in my office at home, I began to journal the following:

I’m 57 today by Your (God’s) grace. Thank you for creating me and never giving up on me. Thank you for giving me my mother and father and my siblings. Thank for giving me a wonderful, caring wife, children, and grandchildren. You’ve blessed me so. If this was my last day on this earth, I’ve been blessed beyond belief. Thank you Lord Jesus.

It is by God’s grace that I made it to 57. It is by God’s grace that I feel so blessed. It is by God’s grace that I have the confidence of life beyond death. In the meantime, it is by God’s grace that He calls me, and in fact all of us, to become more and more like his Son, Jesus Christ, serving Him from the heart. It is by God’s grace in that we are to do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him. It is by God’s Amazing Grace that we become “a touch from God” and live life as Bill Hybels relates:

It should never be said of Christians that as workers they are half-hearted,
careless, tardy, irresponsible, whiney, or negligent. [Behavior] like that
embarrasses God. It brings reproach on Him. At work, Christians should epitomize
character qualities like self-discipline, perseverance, and initiative. They
should be self-motivated, prompt, organized, and industrious. Their efforts
should result in work of the very highest quality. Why? Because they’re not just
laying bricks; they’re building a wall for God’s glory…They’re not just driving
a tractor; they’re [plowing] a strait furrow for God’s glory…Christians must
strive every day to be beyond reproach in all their marketplace dealings and
practices.
from Celtic Daily Prayer: Prayers and Readings from the
Northumbria Community. New York: HarperCollins, 2002.

Interestingly, no matter how old we are, whatever we do, in word or deed, God calls us to do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

Prayer: O Lord Jesus, thank you for blessing our lives. Help each of us as we prepare for our call to eternity, to live as unto you and be thankful. May your life shine through us and become a “touch from God” to others. Amen.

ReTHINK Church in grace and peace,
Jack

Extravagant Generosity

Read: Galatians Chapter 5
“By contrast, the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.” Galatians 5:22-23a (NRSV)

Recently, we began a new journey of “ReThink Church” where we investigate and discover the answers to the question, what if the word church was not a noun but rather an active verb? What would we do as individuals and as the Body of Christ if we came and celebrated who God is, and what God has done on Sunday, and take action with God in Christ – do church – through us in our communities the other six days of the week? We would definitely discover how God calls us to action as the church in our sharing.

Bishop Robert Schnase speaks of the Five Practices of Fruitful Congregations, radical hospitality, passionate worship, intentional faith development, risk-taking mission and service, and extravagant generosity. One of the practices that intrigue me, especially in our perceived economic demise, is extravagant generosity. Bishop Schnase is on target in reTHINK Church, during these perceived times where fear rather than hope prevail. I am encouraged by Bishop Schnase words of remembrance in Five Practices: Extravagant Generosity (study book):

Every sanctuary and chapel in which we have worship, every church organ [or piano] that has lifted our spirits, every pew where we have sat, every Communion
rail where we have knelt, every hymnal from which we have sung, every praise
band that has touched our hearts, every church classroom where we have gathered with our friends, every church kitchen that has prepared our meals, every church van that has taken us to camp, every church camp cabin where we have slept – all are the fruit of someone’s Extravagant Generosity…Generosity is the fruit of the Spirit, a worthy spiritual aspiration (Schnase, Robert. Five Practices: Extravagant Generosity, Abingdon Press, 2008, page 8).

Extravagant generosity is just what the Christ orders during these times to recapture the hope before us. How is our extravagant generosity of time, talent, prayers, presence gifts, service, and witness going to affect those who come along with us, behind us? What are we going to do now to improve our extravagant generosity, to open hearts, open minds, and open doors for the Kingdom of God to come upon us? How is our extravagant generosity going to affect our rethinking of church? May we produce the fruit of the Spirit, generosity…extravagant generosity! Christ would have it no other way as we ReTHINK Church.

ReTHINK Church in grace and peace,



Jack

That Horrid Event

Recently, I heard a comment from a concerned person, "I think the crucifixion of Christ is too graphic for my children." This of course is not the first time I heard this type of comment. Our liturgical calendar leads us through Lent and into Holy Week where we hear more and more about the suffering, crucifixion of Christ in preparation of the Resurrection event.

I still remember how hard it was for Marlane and I to share the reality of Jesus' suffering and death with our children...yes, it would definitely be a PG14 or R rating for some of the accounts and surmises of the this horrendous event that changed the world. Yet, that did not stop us from sharing it with our children. If our children could ask the questions, and they did, they deserved the answers.

It is pretty interesting how we as adults, and even some of our children sitting with us, have no problem with viewing CSI shows, reality TV, horrendous horror stories concerning murder, death, suicides, and the like. Yet, when it comes to the suffering and death of Christ, we want to avoid as much as possible, and gaze upon the empty cross only. We want to avoid any mention or thought of what Christ has done for the world. We definitely want to jump from the Hosannas of Palm Sunday to the Hallelujahs of Easter Sunday, and sidestep the passion of Christ.

But that is not what God would want us to do. God wants us to know and understand what God's sacrifice of His Son meant for us. God wants us to imagine and experience what Jesus went through to bring meaning to our celebration of Holy Communion, Jesus' body and blood given for the forgiveness of sin. God gave it all...and we should teach it to other adults and to our children.

Yes, the Passion is a terrible and horrid event in the life of Christ, but the event was for us. If others or our children as questions about the suffering and death of Christ, we should be prepared and readily give an explanation, and give them the rest of the story toward the Resurrection. Let's not avoid the reality. People love "reality" shows and we have a true reality that transforms lives and the world. Don't be afraid of the passion of Christ, but embrace it with a humble spirit and share it with others.

ReTHINKing Church

"Then the King will say to those on his right, 'Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. 35For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.'” Matthew 25:34-36 (NIV)

Our economy has been a bit shaky over the past several months and it affects all of us to some degree. Many of us concern ourselves over how the economy may affect us directly, i.e., being laid off, companies or people not needing our services. Yet, God calls the church to be a verb and not a noun, especially in these times. What if we answered that call to be a church of action? What if we were more than a building that houses people for a weekly holy huddle? What if we did church in our community throughout six days of the week and then on Sundays, we celebrated with God what the church did in the previous days? What if…?

One opportunity to answer the “what-if question” for FUMC to be a verb, a word of action, is through financially assisting indigent people in time of need. During these down times of our economy, we receive an increase in viable requests for assistance in the community. Two local entities, the Whitesboro Ministerial Alliance (WMA) and Your Neighbors’ House (YNH) try to assist people in need. The Ministerial Alliance provides minimal assistance to people with gasoline vouchers, prescriptions, food vouchers, and occasional one night stays at Victorian Inn. However, the rules of the ministerial alliance are very stringent due to the availability of funds and ensuring that people do not abuse the system. Furthermore, Your Neighbor’s House assists with food needs on a once per month basis. As a church, we contribute $100 per month to Your Neighbors House. Both the WMA and YNH do a wonderful job with their limited resources and parameters of assistance.

These organizations’ subsistence helps many people, but is insufficient in some cases. Persons become unemployed through layoffs or medical difficulties and need help with rent or utility bills. Since the WMA and YNH does all they can do, we believe FUMC is called to go the extra mile and further assist those in need.

Janice McKee is assisting Finance and our church office with guidelines to provide additional assistance through our designated “Benevolence Fund.” In the next several weeks, details will be published, but the next Communion Rail Second Mile Offering (Sunday, April 5th) will go towards the designated “Benevolence Fund” to begin to assist qualified, indigent people of Whitesboro.

Bottom line, our reaching out to the community needs is what Jesus calls us to do in the scripture text above. The bottom line will allow us to be accused and convicted of being benevolent. Our mission outreach in our own back yard is one way we transform the word church from a noun to a verb – reTHINKing church!