This blog entry is for those of you, like myself, who are experiencing Christmas for the first time without a loved one. I finally broke down this morning, Christmas Eve, grieving the recent loss of my mother. Christmas was her most favorite time of the year with her family. We celebrated 54 Christmases together, whether or not I am able to recall them or they were in person or just a long distance phone call. Yet, I will always remember the times we went to the Candlelight service together when I was a little boy. and Mother passedthe Candlelight of Christ to me. What a warm, peaceful, and joyous time for both her and me.
But this Christmas, Mother, is celebrating in Heaven rather than on earth. When a friend of mine in Wylie UMC and I were consoling one another about the loss of our mothers, he gave me the below poem written by Wanda Bencke. I wanted to share it this evening at Candlelight but it would be too hard for most of us. So, I share it with you today (you can google the poem and it will direct you to the poeam and a link for Wanda's website...please thank her for the words of promise and encouragement). Wanda, I thank you also.
I see the countless CHRISTMAS TREES around the world below
The sight is so SPECTACULAR please wipe away that tear
I hear the many CHRISTMAS SONGS that people hold so dear
I have no words to tell you of the JOY their voices bring
I know HOW MUCH YOU MISS ME, I see the pain inside your heart
I can't tell you of the SPLENDOR or the PEACE here in this place
I'll ask him to LIFT YOUR SPIRIT as I tell him of your love
Please let your HEARTS BE JOYFUL and let your SPIRIT SING
~ by Wanda Bencke© Copyright 1999