Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Waiting and Trusting

I have been thinking about my daughter Meri. Meri is in the window to give birth to her second child, our sixth grandchild, and second grandson. She is well on the way. Marlane and I sit patiently waiting for “the” phone call. Okay, I sit and wait but not patiently. Every time my phone vibrates, rings, chimes (for a text or voicemail), I immediately check the caller ID. When I see it say “Meri Arthur,” the adrenaline flows, heart rate increases, and I scramble to see what the message or word is from the expectant daughter. In fact, my heart is racing right now!

I cannot wait for that moment when we head to Las Colinas Medical Center with the family…two grandfathers and grandmothers, along with aunts and uncles, to see the birth of a baby boy. Even my daughter, Meri, is ready but reminds me again and again…”We don’t have control, Dad.”

I is comforting that no matter how much we believe we are in control, or even think we are, events such as a birth of a child reminds us who is in control. Let me clarify, even with planned procedures for moms to have babies (inducing labor, c-sections, etc.) we do not know the exact time of a birth till the baby takes his or her breath. So then, let’s face it, being in control is one thing that many of us want or practice.

However, in times like these, it is comforting to know that God is in control. It is comforting to know that no matter what, God is in control. God calls us to trust Him in all things; easier said than done. Yet, may we remember Proverbs 3:5-6, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths.”

It will be great when our grandson, Frank IV, Li’l Tankie, arrives, but in the mean time, I will trust. In the mean time your life, I hope you will trust.

Grace and peace,

Jack

Monday, January 5, 2009

Whatever You Do!

Yes, we are in the season of resolutions and I declared in a round-about way this past Sunday that Colossians 3:12-17 is a prescription for a resolution of our lives. When Paul the Apostle says, “Whatever you do, in word and deed, do in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ,” I believe he is stating the template to bring long-lasting resolve that is transformation of our lives.

Reflecting on this template recently made me realize two ministries that Marlane and I participated in our marriage that brought about long-lasting resolution (not saying these two are the only ones or the cure-alls of our relationship, nor we practiced them continually in our lives). Furthermore, these two ministries affirmed what I experienced as a Master Chief in the Navy, as a pastor in the United Methodist Church, and as a husband for almost 37 years. These two ministries helped resolve the relationship struggles caused by two major areas, namely financial difficulties and marriage communication difficulties. I believe that these two major reasons for couple and family struggles which in turn affect the wellbeing of both our society and our churches.

In order to address the financial difficulties, the first ministry is becoming a proponent of Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University. I discovered that those who understand the biblical precepts for financial management and giving, and place them into practice, experience financial peace. This financial peace positively affects a couple’s relationship and the dynamics of the associated family, church, and society, one family at a time.

By the way, a Financial Peace University class is beginning again on Sunday, January 11th, for 13 weeks at the church and it truly blesses those who participate. You still have time to sign up with Duane Boone at 940.783.3850. Give him a call today!

In order to address the marriage communication difficulties, Marlane and I discovered a long time ago the effectiveness of Marriage Encounter. A Marriage Encounter weekend away applies biblical precepts of communication and gives the marriage partners the insights and tools to truly communicate with one another out of love. This ministry was just what the doctor “Jesus” ordered for our lives some time ago. We enjoyed the time away from our kids and spending one-on-one time with one another. We found that when we communicate with one another in effective and loving means, life is so much better. The encounter of Christ in our encounter with one another helps us solidify our marriage together with Christ.

By the way, a Marriage Encounter Weekend is coming up February 20-22 in Dallas. Call me today about the weekend at 214.212.6090 and/or see more information in this newsletter.
I guess what is on my mind is this, “Whatever we do, in word and deed, may we do it in the name of the Lord Jesus” and I guarantee you that you will have resolve and transformation in your life.

Grace and peace,
Pastor Jack